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Heteronormative

Heteronormative? Who the heck thinks this is about sexual orientation? The SAHDs that I regularly read tend to be aware of issues that all "at-home parents" face. Let's just call these folks at-home parents, shall we? That'll avoid any concern of who's gay and who is not when it comes to having kids. If we want an article about "gay parenting" then let's create one, shall we, and not try to turn this into that. (added: Oh look! We do have one at http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gay_parenting -- go edit there if you want to address what makes gay at-home fathers different than nongay ones.) -- kctipton 19:21, 4 September 2006 (UTC)

Who allowed the heteronormative label to be appended to this article? At the very least, please place irrelevant and misguided labels like that one to appear at the end of the article, not sitting in all their fatuousness at the head of an otherwise balanced article.


I'm thinking the person probably found it to be heteronormative because the tone of the article suggests that all families have a female parent and a male parent. This was the first thing that jumped out at me about the article. I'm going to edit it to reflect a more inclusive view though instead of putting the tag back on. Triangular 21:43, 23 December 2006 (UTC)

Consistency

There needs to be a consistent use of either "stay at home dad", "Stay at home dad", "Stay at Home Dad" or what not. Varying from line to line is very informal. --70.30.59.2 00:21, 8 June 2006 (UTC)

Not to mention the complete lack of references 137.138.46.155 15:08, 18 August 2006 (UTC)

Then please use the {{fact}} tag. --Zslevi 10:42, 29 January 2007 (UTC)

Copyediting needed

I would like to edit for grammatical correctness the sentence that currently reads, "In recent years, stay-at-home dads are becoming more common and accepted." The grammatical trouble I see is that the tenses of "are becoming" and "In recent years" don't match. I haven't been bold and made the edit because I recognize this is a sensitive topic, and some might see me suggested change as subtly introducing a subjective POV regarding the subject. My suggestion is, "In recent years, stay-at-home dads have become more common and accepted." I regret this text might seem to imply these changes are not continuing. Does their continuance deserve explicit mention, i.e. in a follow-on sentence? (N.B. there are plenty of other problems with this paragraph -- even with this same sentence. I'm willing to work on improving it slowly and incrementally.) Sdsds 05:04, 4 January 2007 (UTC)

This whole thing needs grammatical work. In addition to the inconsistent labeling, it is inconsistent in tense and number. This needs a liberal amount of editing.Bekhardt 21:59, 2 March 2007 (UTC)

Statistics wrong...

Hey guys. Theres gotta be something wrong with the statistics on this article. I'm not even sure they should be there, but since the article discusses the low number of stay at home dads extensively I'm loathe to remove it. But it says there are 2.9 million children being raised by stay at home dads, and 159,000 stay at home dads. That works out to 18.23 kids per father. Also, figures need to be cited. EagleFalconn (talk) 18:11, 21 July 2008 (UTC)

Denastroje (talk) 22:30, 7 July 2009 (UTC)The statistics given (I've done some research on them) are only statistics from the United States, and only account for father's who are currently married. According to the US Census Bureau, that is the only statistical information provided for stay-at-home dads.

explanation

Per User:Piotrus's request, I'll explain my edits to the students involved with editing this article. Summary of what I've done:

  1. Changed most of the citations to use the citation templates
  2. Fixed capitalization of the section titles per Wikipedia's Manual of Style
  3. Moved material to the "Stereotypes/Costs" section from the housewife article
  4. Retitled "Why Dad and Not Mom?", as that does not have encyclopedic tone, it sounded more like an essay or newspaper story section title.
  5. Moved "History of the Homemaker Role" to the homemaker article

--Cybercobra (talk) 22:49, 16 July 2009 (UTC)

GA Review

This review is transcluded from Talk:Stay-at-home dad/GA1. The edit link for this section can be used to add comments to the review.

Hey all. I'll be reviewing this article for possible GA status. Please note that the GA nomination was not completed properly, as the template was not added to the talk page; I've now added it to create this review. Nikkimaria (talk) 17:28, 25 July 2009 (UTC)

I've now completed my review and am placing the article on hold pending improvements. Cheers, Nikkimaria (talk) 22:43, 25 July 2009 (UTC)

Writing and formatting

  • Take a look at WP:Lead - the lead needs to be longer and should outline the main points made in the article (without becoming essay-like)
The lead now appears to be partially doubled - why is this?
It was an accident, I apologize. Denastroje (talk) 02:47, 29 July 2009 (UTC)Denastroje
  • The "essay-like" tag already on the page needs to be addressed before the article can achieve GA status.
I don't really know how we could make it more essay like. We've done a lot of work on it, however I don't know what you would think about it. Also, what do you mean by addressing the tag? Who deletes it? Furthermore, what could be done to make it more "essay-like"?Denastroje (talk) 02:47, 29 July 2009 (UTC)Denastroje
The intent is to make the article less essay-like, not more. This is done by writing in a encyclopedic tone / style. Look at WP:TONE for some suggestions, WP:MOS for more. You address the tag by correcting the issues that it raises - here, by making the article less essay-like. You can either remove the tag yourself once you've done this or, if you're not sure, ask on the talk page if it's been dealt with. Either way, be prepared to justify its removal - if the problem has not been fixed, you're better off not removing the tag.
  •  Fixed The table of contents is overly long. This could be fixed by combining some of the smaller sections, which would also make the article flow better.
  •  Fixed "Most families typically" - redundant wording
  •  Fixed "brought over as initially as indentured servants" - grammar
  •  Fixed "slave trade was a thriving business" - "the slave trade" or "slave trading"
  •  Fixed Why is "African-American" hyphenated in the heading but not in the section itself?
  •  Fixed "Although, without all of the major events in the twentieth century, including the Great Depression, World War II, and the baby boom, the American family would not have transitioned to what it is today" - grammar + clarity needed
  •  Fixed The article as a whole could use more internal links
  •  Fixed When a sentence ends with a citation, there needs to be a period between the last word and the citation
  •  Fixed Dates are not possessives - instead of "1950's", use "1950s"
  •  Fixed "which is often contributed to many families" - grammar
  •  Fixed "in the Western world of the recent years" - grammar
  •  Fixed The article uses too many lists, some of which would be better incorporated as prose
Could you further explain this?Denastroje (talk) 21:37, 28 July 2009 (UTC)Denastroje
Instead of using a lot of bulleted points, try incorporating these points in paragraph form. You can do that by removing the asterisks, making sure that all sentences are complete, and exapanding on certain points if necessary. The completed prose should be 1-3 paragraphs.
  •  Fixed "we are to presume" - not encyclopedic tone
  •  Fixed "utilize" -> "use"
  •  Fixed Some of your citations have an extra curly bracket that bleeds into the text
  •  Fixed "Stereotypes/Costs" is a poor choice for a section heading
  •  Fixed Should not use "you" in an encyclopedic article
  •  Fixed"However, despite the gains in acceptance of the role of househusband, there are still many men who are trying to find acceptance in this role" - awkward
  •  Fixed "worry about loosing" - meaning?
  •  Fixed"households who with a stay-at-home mom" - grammar
  •  Fixed "Full time working women were also more engaged with their children on a day to day basis then working fathers were" - grammar
  •  Fixed "Most notably the character Charlie Conway" - not a complete sentence
  •  Fixed The entertainment section as a whole needs copyediting
What do you mean by copyediting? We're deleting some of the insubstantial examples, is there anything else you'd like us to do?Denastroje (talk) 21:37, 28 July 2009 (UTC)Denastroje
Yes - by copyediting, I mean checking the section for spelling, grammar, etc, and making changes as necessary. I appreciate the reduction in examples, but the section still needs some work in regards to mechanics of writing.
Better, but there's still more to do...
What else do we need to do? Do you think this will EVER pass? I'm running out of patience! Thanks for all your help though! Denastroje (talk) 03:07, 29 July 2009 (UTC)Denastroje
You know, if you'd asked me at the beginning of this if this would pass, I'd have said no - we all expected this assignment to improve articles, but probably not pass them. However, you've put a lot of work into this, and I bet that at least one of these articles will pass - and at this point, yours is one of the front runners. There are issues, but they are being resolved - it just takes time and patience, so save some of yours. I'll do the entertainment section, but feel free to look at the history after to see what I did (ask if you're not sure how to do this). Nikkimaria (talk) 03:24, 29 July 2009 (UTC)
Thanks nikki, you've been so helpful! Denastroje (talk) 03:37, 29 July 2009 (UTC)Denastroje
No problem, glad I can help. (P.S. one assignment just passed GA! Don't give up!). Nikkimaria (talk) 03:54, 29 July 2009 (UTC)
  •  Fixed The Books section is cited using [26] instead of citation templates - needs to be fixed
  •  Fixed In "Statistics", there should not be a space between period and citation

More/new issues:

  • Might consider breaking "Disadvantages" into the same categories used for "Advantages" and expanding slightly
  • Missing hyphens in some places - see WP:HYPHEN for guidelines
  • Should consistently use the term "stay-at-home dad(s)" instead of househusband
  • Father should definately be linked in the main body of the article

Accuracy and verifiability

  •  Fixed Page number tag needs to be addressed
  •  Fixed All "citations needed" tags must be addressed
  •  FixedSection tag on increase in popularity needs to be addressed
  • Citations needed for:
  •  Fixed In the colonial United States, the nuclear family was the most common family form
  •  Fixed The first African Americans to reach America were brought over as initially as indentured servants, but instead they became slaves, and by the nineteenth century, slave trade was a thriving business
  •  Fixed As this rapid transition took place, families lost many of their production functions. Instead, family members had to work outside the home to earn enough
  •  Fixed At the beginning of the twentieth century, married couples began to emphasize the importance of sexual attraction and compatibility in their relationships. This lead to more intimate and open relationships and also more freedom for adolescents from their parents. The transition of the family was also influenced by the Great Depression, which forced many women into the workplace in order to help compensate
There are two parts to this, and I think the first may need to be cited also, for clarity. The part satisfactorily cited has been italicized.
  •  Fixed Due to the draft, work was scarce in many industries and employers began to fill many jobs with women, especially in nontradtional positions. This increase in working women became one of the few times in history in which women were praised for their work outside the home
  •  Fixed It is hard for these men to adapt from being a financial provider in the family to being a homemaker
  •  Fixed Many stay-at-home dads dislike being labeled Mr. Mom largely due to the bumbling nature of the title character, the implication that stay-at-home dads are maternal rather than paternal, and the general emasculating tone of such terminology
  •  Fixed This is briefly touched upon in the Blue-ray commentary of the movie.
  •  Fixed Bombay clearly cares about Charlie and spends the film shaping him into a leader and a good man. This is seen throughout the trilogy of films. Most importantly though Bombay's character displays ways in which you can still be seen as a man in society without being the breadwinner. The clearest example is through coaching and being involved in the child's athletic life
  •  Fixed It has been described by Allison Pearson as "a very very funny and often touching account of one man's struggle to run Planet Home."
  • Need ISBN numbers for as many books as possible
  •  Fixed The same source used multiple times should be cited using the multiref format. See WP:REFNAME.
  • Refs 22, 24, 26, 29 need to be expanded
References have been altered after adding new citations. Which references still need expanded?
11, 20, 28
  •  Fixed If one book title is italicized in references, they all should be
  •  Fixed References and External links should have no entries in common
  •  Fixed External links 2, 4, 5, 6 are broken
  •  Fixed Blogs are generally not acceptable external links

More/new concerns:

  •  Fixed Consensus is against IMDB as a source, especially where other sources are available. Replace if possible.
  • I would strongly encourage you to place citations throughout the paragraphs, rather than simply one at the end. If other editors add material to the paragraph, it becomes unclear what is cited and what isn't
  • The start of the entertainment section needs citations

Broad

  • Tag about worldview needs to be addressed
What should we do if we haven't found any information on worldwide views? We've looked thoroughly but haven't come across anything. Can we delete the tag? Denastroje (talk) 21:38, 28 July 2009 (UTC)Denastroje
No, you can't delete the tag because the issue hasn't been addressed. Here's Canadian, British, Australian, and Chinese for starters. There's plenty of stuff out there - I got these off of Google. Be patient, and keep looking. You can try using the region-specific parameter in Google Advanced Search if you can't find anything in the regular search.
This says "But in South Africa, we are fortunate that many stay-at-home dads have the luxury of a domestic helper." although not much else. - Peregrine Fisher (talk) (contribs) 02:36, 29 July 2009 (UTC)
Here's Japan, Italy (I think), Islam (Housewife has a tiny bit more), Judaism, and India (some).
Thanks so much for your input and help, it's really appreciated!Denastroje (talk) 03:04, 29 July 2009 (UTC)Denastroje
  •  Fixed Why are there no benefits to the father listed?
  •  Fixed The pop culture tag needs to be addressed

Neutrality

  •  Fixed Take a look at WP:WTA - certain words introduce an editorial bias to an article and should be avoided

Stability

No issues noted

Images

  • The article could use another image, but this is not a requirement for GA
  •  FixedThe image's tag may need to be replaced - see the note on the image's page for details.

Educational Project Editing

Here is a general outline of what we plan to accomplish, as a group, concerning the topic "Stay-at-home dads"

The term stay-at home Dad

This will be a short section explaining the common abbreviation (SAHD) so that we may use it later in the article, and the term "househusband" which was the common title given to this role prior to Stay-at-Home Dad became the standard.

History of Women's Role in the Family

This section will delve into the gender roles and stereotypes that have been present within American society throughout history. We will discuss why these stereotypes originated, in regards to typical women's roles in society and the family.

The Evolution of Family Roles

This section will look deeper into the industrial revolution and the changed that occurred within the family structure as a result of it. Father's role in the family change and was becoming increasingly less influential (do to their long hours away from home). We will also look at what the"ideal family" was during this time.

The Rise of the Stay-at-Home Dad

This section will begin with the late 1970's where American culture begins to see a shift in parental roles. The "breadwinning" males were getting laid off and economic times were rough. This plays into the societal changes due to the Women's Movement's. These historical happenings had an effect on the family and increased the father's role within the family unit. More women were entering the work force, while males were loosing their jobs thus forcing them (at times) to stay at home and take over the mother's role, while she went to work and earned money for the family. This began to alter the typical gender roles within a family.

Why Dad and Not Mom?

This section will discuss common reasons a family decides to have the father stay home with the children while the mother goes out and earns a living for the family. I have already added some of this in, however it will be more defined in structure.

Stereotypes/Costs

This section will talk about some of the false assumptions centered on this group of people, being that stereotypes are a major hurdle for this men to overcome. It will also focus on what men have to give up in order to assume this role in the family. We will also look at some of the common concerns of these men (ie: loosing professional ability or attraction).

Benefits

This section will cover the benefits of having a stay-at-home dad. There are a lot of studies which suggest the importance of the paternal bond (at times over the maternal) and illustrate how beneficial this type of structure can be to both the children as well as the family. We will also touch upon the typical male parenting style and the benefits that accompany it.

Resources for Stay-at-Home Dads

I have already added some books to the "book" section, but this will be more along the lines of websites as well as publications one could subscribe to. This will give stay-at-home dads a place to look for help, ideas, and support.

General Editing/Distribution of Tasks

Considering this article had already been started prior to our involvement, there is a lot of "clean up" necessary. Some of it has already been started, but there is still more work to do in that area. This is a general outline of what we will focus on, we may add to it or subtract from it as more information becomes available. There are also some books/TV Shows/Movies that have been brought to my attention by way of research that will be added as well. The four of us in the group will continue to add information to all of the sections as it becomes available. As of yet, we have not delegated specific tasks within the article, but if we decide to do so we will let you know. As of now, we are all just working together to find information and add it to the article. Denastroje (talk) 20:38, 14 July 2009 (UTC)Denastroje

That's a good plan of work. See if the content that was here is salvageable, you are more than welcome to incorporate it into your expanded version. Some observations based on the state the article is as of this moment: When adding inline citations, remember that each sentence should have a citation (since people may insert other sentences in a paragraph; hence you want to make sure that it is clear which source is used to back up what sentence). References should be described - http addresses are not very informative (see WP:CITE). Try to keep a good density of internal hyperlinks per Wikipedia:Linking. You'll also want to format your headings per this manual of style (avoide excessive capitalization and a/an/the). --Piotr Konieczny aka Prokonsul Piotrus| talk 22:44, 14 July 2009 (UTC)
It's high time for you to nominate your article for GA. --Piotr Konieczny aka Prokonsul Piotrus| talk 16:40, 24 July 2009 (UTC)

Further suggestions

  • Please expand the lead to conform with guidelines at Wikipedia:Lead. The article should have an appropriate number of paragraphs as is shown on WP:LEAD, and should adequately summarize the article
  • Consider adding more links to the article; per Wikipedia:Manual of Style (links) and Wikipedia:Build the web, create links to relevant articles.
  • Per WP:WIAFA, this article's table of contents (ToC) may be too long – consider shrinking it down by merging short sections or using a proper system of daughter pages as per Wikipedia:Summary style.
  • There are a few occurrences of weasel words in this article- please observe WP:AWT. Certain phrases, such as it has been should specify exactly who supports, considers, believes, etc., such a view.
  • Watch for redundancies that make the article too wordy instead of being crisp and concise. (You may wish to try Tony1's redundancy exercises.)
    • Vague terms of size often are unnecessary and redundant - “some”, “a variety/number/majority of”, “several”, “a few”, “many”, “any”, and “all”. For example, “All pigs are pink, so we thought of a number of ways to turn them green.”
  • Avoid contractions, such as doesn't, if these are outside of quotations, they should be expanded.
  • As done in WP:FOOTNOTE, footnotes usually are located right after a punctuation mark (as recommended by the CMS, but not mandatory), such that there is no space in between. For example, the sun is larger than the moon [2]. is usually written as the sun is larger than the moon.[2]

Piotr Konieczny aka Prokonsul Piotrus| talk 23:41, 25 July 2009 (UTC)

Good Article Edits

We appreciate all the feedback and my group members and I are working on getting everything up to par. Laura has already made some edits and we are getting together as a group tomorrow to spend time on ensuring our article meets "good article" status. We will post any comments/questions we have. Denastroje (talk) 01:08, 28 July 2009 (UTC)Denastroje

I've been kinda following this class project. While you guys may or may not pass the GA criteria (this is up to the reviewer and no one else), you can still leave behind a very nice article. I have two suggestions to increase the quality quickly. One, just totally remove stuff that doesn't have a reference (Mr. Mom, Mighty Ducks, etc.). Everything needs a ref, so their are two options, do a bunch of research and find a ref, or just remove the text. Two, use the references you already have. You've already read them, so using them will be much faster than finding a new ref. Don't copy and paste (obviously), but check to see if you've gotten all the information out of each ref that you can. If there's more, you can add it. - Peregrine Fisher (talk) (contribs) 05:01, 28 July 2009 (UTC)
IMDB isn't a reliable source, and shouldn't be used to cite stuff. - Peregrine Fisher (talk) (contribs)- 21:34, 28 July 2009 (UTC)

Some could also say that about Wikipedia, the points that I am referencing from the IMDB website I know to be accurate for the few films which are used as I had to watch pieces of the film to figure it out. There are sections of the International Movie Data Base that are accessible to the public, such as the commenting sections or assigning of credits, these were not used in our data collection. However, I will attempt to find the correct way to cite the actual DVD of the movie in which these points are discussed in the special features.--Brunzy03 (talk) 01:28, 29 July 2009 (UTC)

Additional Citations have been added for the movies in question.--Brunzy03 (talk) 02:08, 29 July 2009 (UTC)

Stay-at-home dad tags

After reading information centered on wikipedia writing style, I feel as though I've made the page less "essay-like". I did not want to delete the tag, until I had some feedback, so if anyone could give a second opinion it would be appreciated. Furthermore, I am working on adding some information about other countries in attempts to address the "worldwide view" tag. Denastroje (talk) 14:37, 29 July 2009 (UTC)Denastroje

You may want to ask the user(s) who added the tag(s) to revisit the article and comment here. --Piotr Konieczny aka Prokonsul Piotrus| talk 17:30, 29 July 2009 (UTC)
That would be User:Cybercobra and User:Shubinator. Try their talk pages. Nikkimaria (talk) 17:48, 29 July 2009 (UTC)

Problem

I am unable to add anything else to the lead. It keeps deleting things, or not posting what i've added. At this point, I am going to have to stop working on the article. We've done the best we can and appreciate everyone's help. Thanks for everything!! We have finals to study for and this is consuming too much of my time and energy at this point!! Wish us luck!! Denastroje (talk) 22:50, 29 July 2009 (UTC)Denastroje

Remaining issues

These are (hopefully) the last issues to be dealt with to achieve GA status.

  1. Expand / improve lead
  2. Deal with essay tag
I wrote on the person's page, who initially put the tag up, and I am awaiting a reply from him.Denastroje (talk) 20:21, 29 July 2009 (UTC)Denastroje
  1. Continue to expand worldview. In particular, consider nations where stay-at-home dads are not/less accepted (most Asian nations, most Muslim nations). Evaluate why that is, as much as possible.
  2. Expand "Disadvantages" to deal with mother, child + father
  3. Place citations throughout paragraphs rather than just at the end
  4. Find citations for the claims at the start of the entertainment section

Keep up the good work - you're almost there! Nikkimaria (talk) 18:17, 29 July 2009 (UTC)

Good job guys! Nikkimaria, thank you for your help! --Piotr Konieczny aka Prokonsul Piotrus| talk 02:55, 30 July 2009 (UTC)

Pop Culture Tag

We have made an attempt to further explain why it is important to have the popular culture section and will be deleting that tag now. —Preceding unsigned comment added by Brunzy03 (talk • contribs) 17:09, 28 July 2009 (UTC)

Why was the "Comic" Subsection removed from Popular Culture? See [1] --Allen Hobby (talk) 13:56, 16 September 2009 (UTC)

external links

Merged to external links at top. Isaee100 (talk) 01:14, 13 April 2010 (UTC)


individuals´reports

An interesting link about a personal yet perhaps typical experience of a stay-at-home-dad:

Could such a report be worth adding to external links? --87.174.6.24 (talk) 10:35, 16 November 2008 (UTC)

The picture...

Sure looks like the guy isn't at home, but rather outside. Otherwise he would probably not be carrying both children around. Maybe a picture of a guy who is at home in the picture? — Preceding unsigned comment added by 71.234.123.137 (talk) 01:33, 15 June 2011 (UTC)

external links

Trying to add the Stay At Home Dad Community at Daddyplace.com to the external links section. It's very important that SAHD's have a community where they can meet up when problems and questions arise. — Preceding unsigned comment added by 68.52.14.40 (talk) 15:54, 22 January 2012 (UTC)


want to add dadstayshome.com in the external links, it's the largest and most active stay at home dads community. I added it the other day and failed to see wher eI should mention it here first, sorry. user:sao95 —Preceding unsigned comment added by Sao95 (talk • contribs) 17:34, 10 April 2008 (UTC)


No response ... added it back. No reason why it was deleted. Had approval to add it the first time around. Ptmr (talk) 16:54, 17 January 2008 (UTC)

ParenTeam seems to have been deleted from the external link section. It is still relevant to this section. Could you please reinstate it. Thanks.Ptmr (talk) 22:36, 7 January 2008 (UTC)

I would like my Web site, ParenTeam (www.ParenTeam.com) to be added as an external link on this page. ParenTeam is a resource for working wives of stay-at-home dads. It contains advice, inspiration and education to help them get the most out of their SAHD family. It gives "behind the scenes" tours of a typical SAHD's daily routine, insight to help them better appreciate their stay-at-home husband, etc. The basic premise is that both working mom and stay-at-home dad must learn to function cohesively as a "parent team" to be successful in a SAHD household. It's relevant for anyone considering SAHD-ness or who is already in a SAHD family. Ptmr 20:30, 20 September 2007 (UTC)

I have looked at the website and I have no objection to it being added as an external link. It contains little or no advertising (I couldn't find any) and does seem to add considerably to the info base for this article and thus it meets the requirements of WP:EL. Feel free to add it. Gillyweed 23:03, 20 September 2007 (UTC)
Thanks for including ParenTeam in the listing. I changed "partners" to "wives" because ParenTeam is really focused on working moms/wives of stay-at-home dads (as it says in its site tagline). Ptmr 21:53, 21 September 2007 (UTC)
Please put your messages under the one being responded to. Are you saying that ParenTeam is not for unmarried couples? Gillyweed 23:28, 21 September 2007 (UTC)
It's geared toward working wives of stay-at-home dads, although unmarrieds should likely find value from it as well. There may be other pages targeted specifically for unmarrieds, and they probably ought to be listed here, too. 75.36.199.39 04:09, 22 September 2007 (UTC)
I guess I can't understand the difference between 'wife' and 'partner'? Surely a Stay-at-Home-Dad is a SAHD regardless of whether his partner is his wife or defacto? Gillyweed 04:18, 22 September 2007 (UTC)

Slowlame.com was added to external links 1/13/2007, and I reverted. If you think you can justify the inclusion of slowlame, talk here before re-adding it. 71.112.109.243 20:55, 25 January 2007 (UTC) BR

Can I add a new site? www.SAHDsurvival.com is a site for men who are, or are thinking about becoming, stay-at-home dads. —Preceding unsigned comment added by SAHDsurvival (talk • contribs) 22:23, 29 June 2008 (UTC)

I have merged this little talk with this one. Please advise them. Isaee100 (talk) 01:16, 13 April 2010 (UTC)

Class bias

I was a main carer father twenty years ago and for many of the reasons mentioned - economic, preference etc. This article is assuming so much though - that parents are 'saving for university' for instance. There are a whole range of economic drivers for fathers being the main carers. In some areas of the UK, for instance, when the coal mines closed the jobs for men evaporated leaving women as the breadwinners.

YellowFratello (talk) 08:13, 16 April 2012 (UTC)

Neutrality

I marked the neutrality section as fixed, I took a look at the bias word section which offered suggestions to avoided any words like: claimed, alleged, supposed. These type of words cast doubt on the accuracy of our information and wherever I encountered this, I changed it. -Brunzy03 —Preceding unsigned comment added by Brunzy03 (talk • contribs) 21:31, 28 July 2009 (UTC)

The word "evolved" in the sentence "as families have evolved" seems extremely biased to me. Personally I'm all for stay at home dads, it sounds like a fun job, but using the word "evolved" is not neutral and this is supposed to be an encyclopaedia not a propaganda vehicle so maybe we could use a less positive and more neutral word(s) than "evolved", say maybe "changed" or "changed over time"?

And before anyone says it I know that that is what evolution means and that it doesn't technically mean progress, but colloquially that is how it is used and it seems to imply that this type of family unit is somehow better or more advanced than the more traditional stay at home mother variety and that kind of value judgement is not supposed to be part of a real encyclopaedia.

Let's try and keep sure that Wikipedia doesn't end up as a left liberal version of conservapedia please!!!!

Thanks — Preceding unsigned comment added by 89.126.25.46 (talk) 20:26, 28 August 2012 (UTC)

Wow...

Feminists are turning the world against the concept of housewives, yet househusbands are acceptable now? Pathetic. Political "correctness" and feminism are truly fucking up society. - 190.139.44.10 (talk) 18:38, 11 October 2011 (UTC)

That is incorrect, anon. Please peruse some feminism books, articles, blogs, etc. The goal is to allow men & women alike to stay at home and raise kids, or to be career-hounds, without shame. Ninestraycats (talk) 15:23, 22 April 2012 (UTC)

^That seems to assume that both sexes are equally equipped to be either care givers or workers, which ignores the entire argument about natural differences between the sexes and doesn't take into account the possibility that traditional gender roles had developed because they reflected a biological fact not just a subjective cultural preference and that perhaps because of this the modern trend in sexual equality in all areas is misguided.

ninestraycats maybe you should peruse some books on conservatism or socio-biology?

You're all as bad as each other, neither side ever seems to consider the possibility that the other could be right! — Preceding unsigned comment added by 89.126.25.46 (talk) 20:36, 28 August 2012 (UTC)

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